HOW TO GET OVER SOMEONE FAST ( SPECIFICALLY IN A RELATIONSHIP)

RELATIONSHIPS! OOF, COMPLICATED!

Hey, come on stop munching on cookies and eating a ton of ice cream. I'd really appreciate it if you'd get a water bottle and an apple to munch on. DONE! Thank you so much and thank yourself for doing this. Now, FRICKIN' STOP DROWNING IN YOUR OWN TEARS. Okay, here to know how to get over your boyfriend or girlfriend or even a broken friendship, a betrayal etc. Simple answer admit it and embrace it. Don't pass the blame and take accountability of your fault. It's definitely gonna help you see what's supposed to be seen and not what you wanna see. Therefore, It's absolutely necessary for you to believe that you could be responsible for the break-up and It could entirely be your fault. Look, I'm gonna be blunt, It's not easy. If you're hurting after this break-up then you definitely cared about the other person involved and if you don't feel as pressed by this then congratulations, you freed yourself from a cage. No, seriously, all jokes aside it depends on how much you were emotionally and mentally involved, engaged and devoted to this relationship. How much love and time you invested into this relationship plays an essential role in the pain you'll feel. SO, TAKE TIME TO TRULY ACCEPT REALITY AND THEN ONLY YOU'LL BE ABLE TO LEAVE IT BEHIND AND MOVE ON. I know I am not there but remember you can always talk to me. After all, I have an INSTAGRAM account to cater to all your needs. Here is the link to the same: https://www.instagram.com/22_leah_/. So, as I said before don't go too hard on yourself. I've usually observed that there are various and different reasons for break-ups. Here are a few that I've witnessed myself and experienced. 1, YOU BOTH DECIDED TO END THE RELATIONSHIP AS IT WASN'T MEETING YOUR EXPECTATIONS. HENCE, Y'ALL DECIDE TO END THIS RELATIONSHIP AS YOU FEEL LIKE THAT WOULD BENEFIT BOTH OF YOU MUTUALLY. HOWEVER, IF YOU'RE HURTING IT WASN'T AS MUTUALLY BENEFICIAL AS YOU WANTED IT TO BE. RECONSIDER YOUR DECISION AND GO THROUGH YOUR FEELINGS. LISTEN TO YOUR HEART AND PROMISE YOURSELF THAT YOU'LL DO WHAT IS RIGHT! 2, THE OTHER PERSON ENDED IT AND DIDN'T GO EASY ON YOU. THAT PROBABLY MEANS HE/SHE WASN'T WORTH YOU AND WOULD NOT BE RIGHT FOR YOU IN THE LONG HAUL. P.S. GO SHOPPING AND SHOW OFF ON YOUR I.G., IT'LL PROBABLY MAKE THEM JEALOUS. BUT HONESTLY THEY WEREN'T TOO GOOD FOR YOU OR MAYBE YOU WEREN'T TOO GOOD FOR THEM. Y'ALL ARE BETTER OFF WITHOUT EACH OTHER. RECONCILE AND TAKE TIME TO THINK. All in all, you're probably getting tired of reading but in nutshell, everything happens for a reason so, don't be put down by this. Kick f.o.m.o's ass and hand it over to f.o.m.o cause darling you're not missing out on anything. You're filling your day with time for yourself. This time should be spent strengthening your bond with a special and wonderful person called you. Okay, so here is a bonus and thank you so much for reading this and trying to move on. YOU HAVE ALREADY TAKEN THE FIRST STEP TOWARDS A WISER AND BETTER YOU. 

BONUS: DRINK WATER AND TRY SOMETHING NEW OUT. DISTRACT YOURSELF AND WRITE DOWN HOW YOU FEEL. AFTER WRITING DOWN YOUR BEAUTIFUL AND DELICATE THOUGHTS, BE A QUEEN LIKE TAYLOR SWIFT AND SHAKE IT OFF. IN A BOX PUT YOUR THOUGHTS AND THROW IT INTO A RIVER AND LIGHTEN YOUR HEART AS IT FLOWS AND MOVES AWAY FROM YOU. ALTHOUGH, TO NOT POLLUTE WATER BURN THE PAPER AND AS IT TURNS TO ASHES SHED THE LOAD AND FEEL YOUR SOUL LOOSEN AND LET GO OF A RELATIONSHIP.(I'M NOT ENCOURAGING POLLUTION OF ANY SORTS!!). "THANK GOD FOR WHAT YOU HAVE AND TRUST HIM FOR WHAT YOU NEED". SPEND TIME WITH WHO YOU FEEL THE MOST HAPPY WITH AND DON'T KEEP ANYTHING IN, SHARE YOUR FEELINGS.